Friday was a long day - I started work at 9am, finished at 4pm and took my girlfriend, Dee, home as she had walked the 4 1/2 miles to work purely for a bit of exercise. Once I had dropped her off, I went to my second job and worked from 4.45pm until 9pm. I'm not doing manual labour, but it still becomes an arduous task when you have to stay mentally alert - something I usually arrive at at about 10.30am on any given day.
Winding down is something that just has to be done. Unless severely sleep deprived, or work consisted of eight solid hours of meetings, getting home from a day's work means spending a little time adjusting from the frantic pace of sitting at a desk and
About 5 hours later, I was awoken to the tune of a vacuum cleaner whistling outside my door. That was the first plan that ended in failure, but to show that I am as stubborn as a grass stain against a generic brand of washing powder, I stayed put in my pit. If I remain unmoving, I argued internally, I could reserve the energy required for the day ahead.
I finally discarded the idea of slumber late in the morning, threw on some clothes and joined the rest of the household. Rugby was starting just after midday, so I had enough time to move a few boxes and eat a cooked lunch of gammon, egg and potato croquettes. Lovely stuff.
I got to the club at 12.15pm, and met with a few of the other prompt players. The plan this week was to turn up at the away game with plenty of time for warm-up and practise. A completely foreign concept to the Old Mods 2nd XV, but we were willing to give it a try. Once the team had all turned up, we piled into cars and set off. Halifax was the destination, a good 45 minute drive away. Conversation in the car was interesting, but not something that I will divulge here. All was going well until a tirade of beeps from the car behind alerted us to the horrible news that the game had been cancelled. We were halfway there - so we turned around and went back to the club.
Some players were devastated, having been robbed of a game, while others were at the bar ordering beers. Myself, I felt a bit lost. I wasn't sure whether to watch the first team, who were playing at home, or go home. Either way I had resigned to the fact that playing was not on the cards. Enter Ian Armitage, club legend and third team coach:
'Have we got and second rows?'
My mind knows that I am a second row, but my body doesn't react.
'Andy can play second row.' Ste says.
'Are you a second row?' Armitage asks.
'No, but I can play there if you want.' Andy replies.
'Hoff is a second row.' Ste offers.
'Do you want a game?' Armitage asks.
'Yes.' a voice says. It is mine, I realise, and off I go to get my bag.
The game was, erm, different. I am used to knowing all the players on the team, having played with most of them all season, and I think we have all developed a chemistry, a bond. The 2nd team always play as a team, and at the beginning of the second half, we always switch off as a team. Everything we do, it is as one - and that is the way a team is supposed to be. The thirds have not quite got that gel. I don't mean it in a disrespectful way either - it is difficult to create that synergy when the team changes every week, and don't really train together as a team. The players themselves are good, some of them have enough energy and enthusiasm for the whole team, but when you don't play together as a team things can fall apart. That being said, we only missed by one try, losing 34-29 to Burley. I don't think my mind had switched back on to playing mode; I felt detached from the game and didn't really make a difference.
After the game, and returning to the clubhouse for some banter with the lads that hadn't played, I headed off to Dee's house. I had chili and tacos, with Desperados (best lager ever) and lounged on the sofa. This was the point I managed to recoup some of those lost hours of sleep.
Sunday saw even more energy spent. It started with a trip to the gym shortly after breakfast, where I pushed myself and ended up feeling completely drained. A bold move, knowing that I still had the food shopping to conquer. Leaving the gym, we went to B&Q to get some tools and supplies (I am currently working on the garden) and then headed back. I dropped off the lot (including Dee) and I embarked on the food-gathering quest. To be honest, the usually horrific endurance test of Morrisons at the weekend was quite quick and painless, so I returned home with my temper still leashed and put the shopping away. I cleaned the kitchen, cooked (and ate) some lunch, put up a clothes line, installed a new kitchen light to compliment the replacement light I installed last week (not as easy as I had hoped), attempted to as least start the new fence for the rabbit's enclosure (I failed), had a shower, and cooked dinner (lasagna, if you are interested - from scratch). When I could finally park my arse and relax, Dee reminded me that I still had to clean out the hamster cages. I managed it, but I was running on reserves. I saw the day out watching a movie, not wanting to move and finally not having to either.